I spent the night with a few friends that I hadn't seen in awhile. It was so nice to spend the evening with them and NOT have the conversation revolve around men and boyfriends. Such a welcome change! But, on the downside...while it was fun spending time with my friends, it just became more clear that I am in a different place in my life than they are and I have goals that I'm actively working towards achieving while they remain in the same position year after year. They want things...I think...I'm sure they must, but they are not (at least two of them are not) doing anything to achieve those goals.
It's ok that they are not actively doing anything to reach their goals, I don't need all my friends to be ambitious. But it would be nice to have a few friends to motivate me to constantly try to work towards my goals and re-evaluate them and adjust accordingly. I don't want to just simply be content with mediocre. I want friends who share that value. And not just in words, but in action as well.
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